Same old day. Two cups of French roast coffee, scented candles, meditation and prayer. After breakfast the same old hot shower and a fast search for the right outfit… depending on my mood. Hopefully, I was not in multiple moods. Backing out of the driveway and off to the same old office. Unlocking my private …
That creepy feeling. A bad vibe. The brain in your gut. Who are these voices? Where are they coming from and what do we do about it? After a recent speaking engagement, I overheard a woman say she listened to her gut all the time. Is that possible? She’s been married twice and drinks too …
Have no fear, for everyone is afraid of something, everyone has a secret, and nobody wants to get caught. Are you hiding behind something you condemn others for? Have you ever said this, “Please don’t tell anyone…?” The fear of being judged by a mistake you made is frightful, especially if you risk losing everything …
Time, has no taste, smell, touch, sight or sound, but it can effect your thoughts. Time can be useful if you need more of it to finish something. Time can also be negative, if you don’t know what to do with it. Lately, (for the past year), I have had an abundance of time, time …
What do you want out of life? Do I hear you say, “Happiness, love, health, family, money, good job, great sex”? What does that really mean? It’s a universal response, which doesn’t mean anything. Perhaps if I asked, “What are you willing to struggle for”? Ah, ha, now you say “What”? If you want the …
Can you remember the last time you were happy? Really happy? Be honest. What makes some people happier than others? Why? Better circumstances, more money, better job, nicer car, maybe servants? Last week we had one of those magnificent days. It was truly a “Carolina Blue Sky Day”. Not too hot, not too cold, not windy, …
Sharing something of value is a gift our society has forgotten. We share for money or tweets. People are on “speed dial” when it comes to publicly sharing their selfies, new haircuts or their new promotions. Do we share because we really care? Or do we share because we get something in return? As I …
Fired for no reason: Discriminated based on personality. Whether you can be fired for no reason, when you did nothing wrong, depends on your employment status and specifically on whether you are an at-will employee. In most of the United States, employees are generally considered “at will” employees. At-will means that you or your employer …
Honesty has scared men away. When creating my profile on Match.com, I was being honest when I said, “I don’t brush my hair everyday”. Honestly, it’s in a ponytail and it’s fine. And honestly, I really don’t care about taking long walks on the beach, holding hands and listening to the midnight rain. For …
Did you know we are made to be transparent, authentic, and vulnerable? Doesn’t that sound alarming? Transparency? I’d rather be naked than expose my heart. (Well, not exactly, but I couldn’t think of anything else). Alternatively, we have become, a society of judging others who don’t agree with our opinions or behave the way we …
